I am but the sad thing about being a cub is that we do need help every once in a while. I know that if I was in your shoes I'd help out my SO whenever possible but at the end of the day id want them to pay me back with something like chores or gradually pay it back via a small job or something.
No, and maybe you shouldn't be on this site if you don't like that idea. It's OK for a WOMAN to sponge off a man. But it can't be the other way around? You're double standard, #metoo ideas are played out. Nobody is going to fall for those lines. lol.