Seriously, all the titles in this forum crack me up. All the same line... 21 and looking for sugar momma blah blah blah... It's good to know what they are working with but these women want to be romanticized. They want you to make tem feel that spark they have been missing. An above all if you are an awkward lover, don't figure it out on a hot cougar, because they do not find it cute and charming. Be yourself, be mature and have confidence. Good foreplay and at lead a half hour of good hard fucking is necessary at minimum for a woman to get near the peak..usually. But you need to be a good lover because that is the attraction a lot of times, the excitement. Sorry, I just had to clue you fools in. I am joking of course you just think it'll work an it usually won't.