There aren't any, cupcake. I'm not saying they don't exist. It's just that most cougars are merely older women who prefer to date and have relationships with younger men....but on the same equal ground as when the ages are more similar.
As I've stated in another post of my own, we don't need to do what you are requesting to "have fun". On the other hand, if you were to approach the ladies more respectfully, rather than with a sense of entitlement, you just never know what someone will do for you.