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  • View author's info ( 42 year old cub / man | South Grafton, MA, United States )

    Whatever feels comfortable to the both of us

  • View author's info ( 33 year old cub / man | New York, NY, United States )

    We meet somewhere quite. Separately. We find each other from across the bar and flirt for a while. Finally someone gives in and meets the other. We don't talk, we just get a feel for each other. Sit close. Hand on an arm...  read more >>

  • View author's info ( 29 year old cub / man | Milwaukee, WI, United States )


  • View author's info ( 25 year old cub / man | Blackwood, Wales - Monmouthshire, United Kingdom )

    Go out for a drink and get to know each other, have a laugh and go from there

  • View author's info ( 21 year old cub / man | Worcester, MA, United States )

    I just want to have fun

  • View author's info ( 31 year old cub / man | Cambria Heights, NY, United States )

    I'm very laid back. Couple of drinks or a nice lunch is fine with me

  • View author's info ( 27 year old cub / man | Winfield, KS, United States )

    Nice night on the town getting drinks and listening to music at all the cool bars

  • View author's info ( 36 year old cub / man | New York, NY, United States )

    Drinks are perfect! Alcohol is a social lubricant, getting drinks is not too committed for a first encounter (either of us can bail if it gets uncomfortable), it's done in front of others (i.e. safe), and there's nothing...  read more >>

  • View author's info ( 54 year old cub / man | Bay City, TX, United States )

    Having a drink or a coffee in a nice place

  • View author's info ( 20 year old cub / man | Miami, FL, United States )


  • View author's info ( 20 year old cub / man | Warrington, England - Lancashire, United Kingdom )

    Go to a pub for a few drinks, get to know each other then go for a walk through a park.

  • View author's info ( 30 year old cub / man | Los Angeles, CA, United States )

    I don't do the movie and a bite to eat kinda thing. I rather go to secluded lounge, for some drinks, and soft music to really take in the entire ambience of it all. Engage in flirty conversation and just get lost in the...  read more >>

  • View author's info ( 52 year old cougar | Twickenham, England - London, United Kingdom )

    Make it simple,no pressure. Nice location and view and see what happens.Chat very much obligatory !

  • View author's info ( 42 year old cub / man | Las Vegas, NV, United States )

    Meet and have a drink to get acquainted, and find out how well we click. And if so we can decide to have a second date or maybe continue with the one we are on and start having some fun

  • View author's info ( 23 year old cub / man | Cedar Hill, TX, United States )

    drinks, food, room