I'll take you to the academy of science in San Francisco. They have an "adult night" once a week where you can go get wine beer or cocktails while you explore the planetarium and all the exhibits. It's amazing
Lets go exploring the city and new exhibition in one of the various museum of Montreal before getting a nice elaborated cocktail/wine in an original bar. Psychological connection comes before the physical.
How about we go some place quiet but lots of people, like the museum or a an art or car show. its a nice to place to talk to and open the door for getting to know lots about each other in a short time.