FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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Ambitious, respectful, and full of positive energy—I’m here to connect with a confident, mature woman who knows what she wants. I value deep conversations, shared laughter, and building something meaningful. Whether it’s enjoying a quiet dinner or planning a spontaneous getaway, I’m all about creating unforgettable moments. Let’s enjoy life’s finer things together—with honesty, class, and a touch of adventure.
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Let's get together at a cafe or fine dining restaurant where we can have a conversation to get to know each other.
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希望可以喝喝咖啡或者是小酌，互相聊天認識彼此之後，再考慮是否有進一步的發展。
I’d love to grab a coffee or a drink, chat, and get to know each other before considering if we’d like to take things further.
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My idea of a perfect first date is meeting at a cozy café — enjoying good coffee, light conversation, and letting things flow naturally.
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1st A rooftop coffee date with a view, just us and the city lights 🌆
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2nd Go for a bird watching at riverside in the evening ✨ and holding hands of each other and also feel each other's incredible soul connections😌💕
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A nice quiet walk preferably around a lake and a bite to eat so we could chat and see if there's any connection
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nothing to crazy, I'm more of the "what we do or talk about" in the cafe guy than a "fancy cafe in this or that part of town" guy
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Let's meet, talk, see if there's chemistry. Let's keep it neutral, no politics, just normal meet n greet stuff.
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I met my first date in my high school vacation and it was my first love! We met at the wedding party and exchanged contacts that's how we started dating!
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Grabbing coffee at a cafe and having an intellectual conversation about whatever we want to talk about
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Going to Tatte and grabbing an espresso and a croissant and just talking about current life or where you would like to see yourself in a couple of weeks
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"Hey, it's really nice to finally meet you in person! How's your coffee treating you?"
Or, if you want to break the ice a bit more:
"I'm so glad we decided to meet here. The atmosphere is really cozy. What do you think of the place?"
This gives you both a chance to chat about something light and casual while enjoying your drinks.
As for what your girlfriend might say, it could be something like:
"Yeah, the coffee is great! I'm glad we chose this place. How about you, how's yours?"
Or she might ask you a question to keep the conversation going:
"So, what do you like to do in your free time?"
The goal is to keep the conversation flowing naturally and enjoy getting to know each other.
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For me, the first date is all about connection and curiosity.
It’s a chance to really get to know someone—what makes them laugh, what excites them, and how they see the world.
I enjoy a relaxed atmosphere where conversation flows naturally, with moments of laughter and genuine smiles.
A perfect first date isn’t about grand gestures—it’s about small, meaningful moments, shared experiences, and the spark that hints at something deeper.
I like to keep it fun, light, and memorable, leaving both of us looking forward to the next adventure together.
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Social setting with good conversation in laid back environments. Exchanging ideas in life and society.
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For a first date, I imagine a cozy coffee in a quiet café where we can really talk, a walk by the beach holding hands, or dinner at a nice restaurant with good food, wine, and smiles. I’m looking for a mature, confident lady to create beautiful and exciting moments together – both in public and in private."
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Start with a cozy meet-up at a local café with a relaxed atmosphere somewhere you can actually hear each other talk. Order your favorite drinks, maybe share a dessert and chat without pressure. Once the conversation is flowing, take a slow walk through a nearby park or along a scenic street. This gives you both a chance to keep talking while enjoying a bit of fresh air and natural scenery. It’s casual, comfortable, and leaves room for spontaneous moments, like stopping at a cute shop or watching the sunset.
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Lovely and romantic coffer with my sweetheart.A coffee date is a great first date idea because it's casual, low-pressure, and allows for easy conversation. It's also a low-cost option, and you can easily gauge compatibility and connection without a large time or financial investment.
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lass uns was trinken gehen oder spazieren und sehen ob es einigermaßen passt! Sollte es nicht passen kann man eventuell befreundet bleiben oder auch nicht.
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We can either go to a neutral zone like a coffee shop or we can immediately get to The fun stuff and I can rock your world like no other
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Just contact me
We should meet then we can talk more about ourselves
Nothing by knowing you.
Free feel to meet me.
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