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Posted on Sep 20, 2016 at 10:52 AM

There are multiple benefits of dating an older woman. In addition to knowing what we want, our age and experience have provided us with special skills which, when offered to a young man such as yourself, can be quite exciting and fulfilling. We are generally more established, with fixed careers and stable income. Past relationships with older (or even younger) men have given us insight as to how to please our men and treat them with respect. While we get what we want from the relationship, we will generally let you be you and not try to change or manipulate you into being or becoming something else.

 

And while we aren’t interested in changing or manipulating you, we do appreciate a cub who is open to experience and advice, and wants to learn more about how to treat an older woman – or all women in general – properly, to fully enjoy all we have to offer.

 

What can you do to increase your chances of snagging that elusive, seductive, sexy and experienced older lady? Here are my covenants, my “must haves” I’d like to pass on to you, for catching the cougar of your dreams.

 

Tip#1: Be honest about yourself. Don’t try to trap her. According to statistics, a significant portion of people, men and women alike, are not completely truthful in their online profiles. Everyone wants to look good, but if you’re not really what she’s looking for, don’t try to fool her into a relationship. Most cougars, being of a certain age, have been around the block a time or two, and more often than not, they can see right through the nonsense, deception and bullsh*t those younger girls fall for.

  

Tip #2: Be honest about your intentions. Don’t waste her time. Women (and men) go on these sites for very specific reasons. Even if they say they are “just trying it out,” or “just looking around,” they usually have an ultimate goal in mind. Be honest about your intentions and in what you are looking for. There are cougars out there who:

 Just want to have fun, flirting with a cub online, not wanting to ever meet in person

  • Want a text partner to share sexting, web-chats and provocative pictures, and take it no further
  • Want to meet a nice cub, in person, for friendship and nothing else
  • Are looking for a life partner, someone for a serious long-term relationship, perhaps even marriage
  • Want to hook up with a cub, for sex and FWB
  • Are willing to pay your living expenses in exchange for your companionship and services, both inside and outside the bedroom
  • Want to meet and date a cub for a long-term, but not permanent relationship
  • Want a casual relationship; and with that sexual component, want their cub exclusively to themselves
  • Want a combination of any of the above, or even something entirely different

You will have better luck in getting what you want, if you truly want the same thing as she does. There’s no point in being what you’re not, or pretending to be what she wants. If she perceives that you are being deceitful, catfishing her, or just stringing her along, she’ll block you, and may even report you to the website administration.

 

Tip #3: Show her your face. Take off your sunglasses in your profile picture. She wants to see what you look like. Looks may not be everything, and everyone has their own tastes. But how can she know if there is a spark or connection, if she can’t see your eyes? Lose the shades.

 

Tip#4: Send dick pics or other naked photographs only if asked. Some women like it, some women don’t. If she does, she’ll eventually ask you for one. If she doesn’t, an unsolicited dick pic can be a real turn-off for her, and she’ll likely not even bother to reply. She may even block you so you don’t bother her again.

 

Tip #5: Avoid playing games. Be up-front honest about who you are, what you want, and what you’re willing to do, including how far you are actually willing to travel. Give this careful thought. Older women have no patience for pretense or ambiguity. If you try to fool her, tell her what you think she wants to hear, or in other ways lead her to believe you’re not who you say you are, she’ll drop you faster than you can say “sugar mama.”

 

Tip #6: Clean up your act. If you agree to meet in person, you will want to make your very best first impression. Shower. Shave. Trim your facial hair. Wear clean clothes and a little fragrance (but not too much). Dress nice. The t-shirt, shorts, and backwards ball cap are fine for a night of binge drinking with your buddies, but a cougar is seeking a cub because she wants to show off that nice-looking younger man. “Arm candy” is sweet, clean, tasteful, and appealing. If you snag a first date and want a second one, you need to prove to her you are worthy of her company.


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Online dating has benefits, but also drawbacks & special considerations. You may meet cougars (or cubs) who do not have your best interests in mind. Be smart, be careful, or you could find yourself preyed upon by an unscrupulous phantom, or maybe worse. Be skeptical until you are comfortable, and be sure to follow all the same internet dating tips & guidelines you would in any online social situation. (Trinity is a professional writer. She has been dating younger men for three years.)
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