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Posted on Feb 12, 2018 at 04:15 PM

Step #2



Thanks for clicking on my blog, guys. Lately I’m have a thing about Online Profiles and how cubs use or don’t use theirs the right way, to get a cougar to click.


Last time, I wrote about Profile photos and the importance of posting a good one. Today’s tip is how to use the “About Me” section of your Profile.


So many times, I see a cute cub in my Search results, or my “Let’s Meet” choices, but when I go to his Profile, there’s nothing there. “About Me” is blank. Or it’s sparse, with something like a brief greeting, flirtatious comment, or a brag about his sexual prowess. That’s all well and good, but it doesn’t really tell me about him – the real him.  I don’t know what he wants, or what he’s looking for. I have no idea if we’ll have anything to talk about.

“About Me” is your opportunity to talk about yourself. Who doesn’t like to do that?!


Now, I realize, some guys just don’t feel they’re any good at this. Or they don’t know what to write, or how to phrase it. Other than a blank “About Me” section, other turn-offs include:

>> Saying how much online dating sucks, or that you suck at it. It’s OK if you do. It ain’t easy, and it can become very frustrating, very quickly. Cougars know this; we realize this. It takes guts to put yourself out there. We’ll respect that effort a lot more if you don’t talk about how lame it is that you’re here online. So are we. And we don’t want to be told we’re lame, for using it.

>> Asking if this site is for real, or if there are any real women out there. (Yes. There are.)

>> Talking about how much you hate talking about yourself. Again, it’s OK if you do, but we don’t need to know that. Confidence without conceit is very attractive. Self-aggrandizing under the disguise of false humility isn’t.


So what do you write about yourself, when you’re writing your “About Me?”


Tell her about your likes and dislikes. Tell her about your favorite foods, music, movies, sports. Tell her what you do for work. Tell her what you do for fun. Tell her what makes you laugh.


Tell her what you’re looking for. There’s a section at the end where you get to choose what you want from online dating: friendship, casual, intimate, long-term, marriage, etc. But here in “About Me” is a way for you to tell her that in your own words.


What you’re looking for helps her decide if you are a good match, if there’s a connection, if there’s a chance for you to learn more.


Cougars are online to meet cubs for a lot of different reasons. There are a lot of guys out there, and a lot of searching to do. Some cougars connect with only one cub at a time. Others cast a much wider net. Because, let’s face it: sometimes we start an online conversation, and for whatever reason, we lose interest really fast. Meeting people online is tough. For everyone. Why not make it easier on yourself and her by using the tools provided by the site to narrow your focus, find what you’re looking for, and finally meet that someone special?



You don’t have to be clever. You don’t have to be charming. Be unique. Be upfront. Just be yourself.

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Online dating has benefits, but also drawbacks & special considerations. You may meet cougars (or cubs) who do not have your best interests in mind. Be smart, be careful, or you could find yourself preyed upon by an unscrupulous phantom, or maybe worse. Be skeptical until you are comfortable, and be sure to follow all the same internet dating tips & guidelines you would in any online social situation. (Trinity is a professional writer. She has been dating younger men for three years.)
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Posted on Mar 31, 2018 at 11:45 PM


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Posted on Mar 07, 2018 at 02:15 PM

I agree totally, and the same can be said about the ladies! Let us know what you're looking for. . . 


Best of luck in your search!


thanks for posting



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Posted on Mar 05, 2018 at 11:09 PM

hey! I think this a very well written article and also love the photo at the end. I would love to know you more as a person! I just joined the website and new to the scene but very much excited and believe this will help. even though I already have filled all the information on my profile! Would love to hear from you. and btw, you look really pretty in the picture :)

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