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Posted on Jan 19, 2008 at 09:56 AM Total posts: 1

IS ANYONE IN THE SAME SITUATION AS I? I'VE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 15 YRS AND ITS GETTING BORING..WE DONT GO OUT AND ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY WE JUST SIT HOME AND PUT UP WITH EACH OTHERS COMPANY....NOT SURE IF I SHOULD ASK FOR A SEPERATION OR WHAT!!!???

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EdwardJa...
Posted on May 05, 2014 at 10:58 PM Total posts: 2

Relationship take work and understanding. I think unless you convey your feelings , give him the oppurtunty to express his and then decide if you both want to work on it. If he doesnt see it then you have another deal to work out but if he does then maybe it can be an exciting way to get out of your comfort  zone and get to know each other agian . 


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BossMann...
Posted on Jun 10, 2012 at 02:40 AM Total posts: 1

im not looking for a relationship. im here to help you out with stress. im here to give you that time your husban couldnt in years. and i can do it in one night.


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Posted on Jul 22, 2011 at 06:52 PM Total posts: 2

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Posted on Feb 06, 2011 at 11:59 PM Total posts: 1

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Posted on Jan 28, 2010 at 06:11 PM Total posts: 2

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Posted on Dec 21, 2009 at 12:43 PM Total posts: 8

Arrange the marriage so it becomes an open one. The perimeters are to be set by you and your spouse. Work out the limits for each of you. Spouse won't play ball. Legal separation is in order if the spouse doesn't step up and chnage the atmosphere.

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Posted on Dec 21, 2009 at 12:40 PM Total posts: 8

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olieba...
Posted on Sep 13, 2009 at 04:39 PM Total posts: 1

look for what makes you happiest in life cause you'll jus hurt forever let him go now you can probaly be friends still later on in life.

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wright20...
Posted on Aug 18, 2009 at 11:08 AM Total posts: 2

Get seperated and try some free living. Find some youg guy to show you how to make love again. A few good orgasms and you will be back to feeling your old self again

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bob11...
Posted on Dec 15, 2008 at 03:14 AM Total posts: 1

Most of the relation ships start going bad when the sex start slacking off. sex shouldn't be the only thing in a relationship but it is the foundation it keeps the house sitting on that hill.. trying new things and doing other things will ease the tension...

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smallpeck...
Posted on Jun 28, 2008 at 02:51 PM Total posts: 3

Mistress, Your going to have to weigh a few things,First If you do split up,are there children involved and who will have them,Being a single dad myself for many years now,thats a hard job esp if your going to have to work also,Don't plan on your ex supporting you when you split up,Also Don't plan on having a lot of time on your hands for yourself or dating,As all the normal chores will fall on to your shoulders such as shopping cleaning laundry,kids off to school ,cooking meals,and much more Daily.Just because you are a little bored in a relationship can be a very hazardous situation if you make a rash decision that is life altering in ways you may not realize until its too late.I was married for a long time and with her even longer about 19 years or so,She got bored and decided to try a new boyfriend on the side and drugs,Of course I divorced her for good reason soon as i found out ,Just because you have become bored like a kid that done with a toy does not mean something is salvageable.Number one communication,Talk with your significant other and see how he feels,2 Go to see a Marriage consoler together,3 Go out with other couples for a fun night on a regular basis,,sometimes mixed company will loosen things up and the extra company will make quite an enjoyable time.Then after this and a few more things you still are bored with each other ,then maybe a separation may be in order,The risks involved are of course he may find someone better he likes,or you may,neither one of you may not be able to support yourselves in these tough times.I have been,my ex wife has not,she has gone from place to place every couple weeks,owes everyone in the county money,and her reputation has diminished to totally untrustable,even among her family members that have tried to help her.Lately I know she has hit bottom as she is a very proud woman ,and she thought she was doing the right thing at the time because she was bored with our relationship.And she refused to try anything to fix it but her solution.I now get Ph calls from her asking to go on vacation with Me and the Girls,to come over for dinner,and other events,Trouble is ,I am no longer interested in her in anyway ,and apparently after she got that little bit of boredness out of her has realized hey,I lost everything,and how well I did treat her,And from what i can see wants it back ,and feels she can just come walking right back in and take up where she left off,I don't think so.Mistress this is the situation you could find yourself in,You need to make sure splitting up with your husband after so long is the right thing and think about the risks involved,And remember if your husband is a good man there are plenty of good women looking for a good man out there.Weigh your circumstances carefully and do not make a rash decision ,being a little bored can be cured easily ,Going the other route can be a rest of your lifetime mess.Its your decision think long and hard about it,as in most cases its irreversible,once its been done.

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Posted on Jun 21, 2008 at 03:09 PM Total posts: 1

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luvhamm...
Posted on May 17, 2008 at 06:03 PM Total posts: 1

I'm in the same situation. I think no matter how hard you try... You grow apart. I've tried date night and many, many others. Find a new thrill!

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robert...
Posted on Apr 15, 2008 at 09:23 AM Total posts: 1

Unfortunate, but it happens. If there's no love involved, you should know. You should be able to feel it. Might be time to explore your options. I'm kind of in the same situation. Difficult to explain in a blog..but if you don't feel it.....do something about it....i think we all under-estimate happiness.

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PokerPlay...
Posted on Mar 18, 2008 at 02:27 PM Total posts: 1

Are there children involved? If so, how old are they? If there are children involved and they are *almost* of age, then just be patient and hang in there. Make the seperation after they are out of the house. If there are young children involved, they must come first. If you can make an arrangement with your husband where you can spice up your lives (together or seperately) without ending the marriage, explore that rout first. Separation where young children are involved should only be as a last resort and only if the relationship is truly toxic, not just boring. Good Luck to you

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Posted on Jan 27, 2008 at 11:11 AM Total posts: 1

Mistress, I was married 6 1/2 yrs and the relationship grew a little stale. I think it comes down to what you really want. If he's your guy you can get through it but it's going to take both of you. If it's just one sided thing it will never work no matter how hard you try.

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carman...
Posted on Jan 22, 2008 at 10:12 AM Total posts: 1

Life is toooo short to be unhappy!!!

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